Relationships & Instincts

Using your instincts to get your relationships back on track and supporting you.

Relationships that are under pressure and using your instinct to get them back on track and supporting you again.

Whether or not you believe it, your psychic power is inborn. Understanding will simply help you access your inner power and knowledge, use it consciously and live a richer love life.

I have found many relationships this year under pressure as the money pressure came on, not to mention the universal energy change we all went through. Every ones reacts to something but the past two years have increased the pressure on most relationships. It maybe one partner seems more distant and the other reacts to everything but any pressure causes withdraw or over reaction. The trick is first being aware and second figuring out and using coping mechanisms to deal with it. Your instinct is a guide to finding coping mechanisms, answers and solutions to settle your relationship.

Using your instinct can be a key factor in figuring out what to do and woman, have great inner power and strong instincts. Women are emotional beings so by feeling your way through this will help you and support you to settle you and your partner. Let's face it, woman steer the house hold ship and if you're feeling good then everyone else is easier to deal with and most household follows someone.

One of the most important keys to understanding instinct is to become clear of the difference between thought and instincts and this can be very hard for anyone to get to grips with.

Let's use selling a house as an example:

First question - should we sell our house? Now if this idea grabs you then the instinct is right. Your head (mind chatter) will naturally kick and try and convince you with 100 facts why this is a bad idea, but if you feel excited (grabbed) by the possibility then take it to the next level. You may have a warm feeling and an innate knowing this is the right thing to do but there will always be doubt and understanding and reading instincts always requires a level of trust.

If you have a sinking feeling or it grabs or stops your breath then the instinct is telling you beware and this is not a good idea and again your head will kick in with the contrary belief.

Often there is a feeling of warmth (positive) or a cooling (negative) in the gut which is another indicator.
Every time there is a question, ask yourself "how do I feel about that" and take note of those instincts and feeling associated around the question. Keep a dated journal with your questions, feelings and instincts, and then write the answers and soon a pattern to reading your instincts will emerge.

Keeping a journal also gives confirmation that you are doing the right thing as written records yell loudly when you re read them months later.

By using your instincts and asking question to yourself you will soon become connected and it will become a strength. Your instincts will develop and grow and you will become acutely aware of what to do or what not to do.

Now use the instincts on your relationships and ask for guidance and confirmation on what to do. Use the same techniques and really look at your partner. You will see and feel the fear and then know why all the reaction and what to do. The best thing to do is say little and use your inner power to reinforce love and support and by focusing on them which will bring you both back together, and then you may be able to talk things through and make decisions together.

Trust yourself and what spirit gives you as there is a lot of universal information for you to connect to. Don't give all your power away and process with other woman if you need to work things through. Men don't process the same way as they go inward for answers to fix what's wrong and this is a fundamental difference between us.

Your instincts are your power source to a strong relationship... trust them.