Success & Money, Habit & Hardship

Success means something different to each and everyone but sadly most people equate success with how much money they have. Should this be the measure of success? It is a measure but not the only one.

Success is finding that new job, establishing a relationship, reaching a personal goal, increasing confidence, buying a house, clearing debt, falling in love, getting a raise, becoming healthy, going into remission, bringing up a family and so much more.

I have met scores of financially successful people and they all have a few things in common - instinct, confidence, drive and determination! They are generally not driven by gathering money but something bigger, it may be a passion for a cause, the euphoria of clinching that deal, being competitive or a personal goal or intention. I was giving a reading one day with a man who manufactured pegs. He made and sold a few businesses prior to this business and I asked him why he was so successful. He replied "my father said I couldn't do it". He grew up with a dominant father who worked on the wharf. His father told him "business was for the educated in life and you're not". Money became the by-product of this drive and intention to prove to his father that success was available for anyone.

So what are your passions, drive and determination setting you up for? Do you have a personal goal or believe you can actually achieve one?

One area of failure is personal belief. If you do not believe that you can achieve your intentions why should spirit support you?

Read my section on Empowerment and overcome personal disbelief.

Habit, Hardship and Money 

We all need money but why do some people struggle financially? Is it fear, habit or bad management? Perhaps a mixture, how we handle money is what we have been taught by our parents or a reaction to them. We can all think of stories...

My mother had a friend who used to re-use tea bags. She would use them, dry them and use them again. What do you think her fear was? It certainly was not to live in abundance. I also had a client that who got herself financially stricken. She asked her family to help her, they told her to sort her own mess. All they showed her was lack of support and induced more fear as she felt she had nowhere to turn for help. Instead they could have showed her how to budget and make her money work for her. This would have empowered her and brought the family closer.

So take a look. Did your parents enjoy money or was it feared, were they stingy or generous? What are you now teaching your children? We also have karmic lesson. Money and abundance may be part of your lesson and this is something you can generally find out by having a reading. Just because it is part of your karmic or soul lesson does not mean you need to struggle, rather work through the fear and learn how to make money work for you.  There are so many successful business people in the world who have lost everything at least once but they always get back up and make the changes to make their next millions. They never give up - the loss makes them more determined. They learn from past mistakes and they often make even more the next round. They don’t beat themselves up over and over slowly killing their self worth - they get over it and move on. Hardship does not mean lie down and accept defeat. Learn the lesson and don't re-live the lesson. Make the changes and avoid the pitfalls, embrace confidence, knowledge and above all believe in yourself.

There are some good budget supports on the web. Check out www.getsorted.co.nz or Google budget advice and take control of your finances.

Are you secure in the belief that you will always have what you need or do you live in fear of loosing everything and struggle in fear of how will I pay my bills. Is struggle all you know? Read the mind techniques below to help change your inner fears.

Try a Confidence builder spell or an empowerment spell and then work on some mind power techniques to change some of those negative habits, ideas and thoughts.

Affirmation
I am financially secure and independent

There are many spells to increase wealth or ask for help. The main money spell I have used is very old and I only use when I really need it, and my need has always been met. You can only do money spells a maximum of four times per year or they may have a reversing affect.

Look in the web store for other money spells.